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Mary Jo Asmus

Mary Jo Asmus is an executive coach and a recovering corporate executive who has spent the past 12 years as president of Aspire Collaborative Services, an executive consulting firm.
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The Counter-Intuitive Nature of Slowing Down to Speed Up

May 11, 2017 We all know productivity is important. It fuels growth and bottom line results. So when you push people to move faster, shorten deadlines, and bring in new, more efficient technology, productivity will increase, right? Perhaps. There are some things that you might have neglected in your quest to be more...

How To Stop Waltzing Around an Important Issue

May 4, 2017 You’ve sensed that you need something more or different from someone important to you in the organization in order for you to perform at your best. You’ve been elusive about the issue, telling them what you need indirectly hoping they’ll “get it.” You’ve been doing this dance for a long...

The Neuroscience of Asking Insightful Questions

April 26, 2017 I teach coaching skills to leaders. When I get to the section on how to ask questions (an important part of learning to coach) I might ask a trick question to start off: “How many of you are good at solving problems?” Without fail, almost all hands shoot enthusiastically into...

From Fear to Compassion: Wisdom from the Dalai Lama

January 20, 2017 Your work as a leader is stressful, with too much on your plate. This constant stress causes you to experience a never-ending fear of failure. Sound familiar? It’s a terrible way to live and the situation is impacting your health. Cortisol is pouring into your system, causing poor decisions, increasing...

Now’s the Time to Lead With Grace and Compassion

December 22, 2016 Like so many, I woke up on the morning of November 9 anxious to hear the final results of the election. I spent the day in a fog of confusion and a whole lot of other emotions that prevented a productive work day. My husband, adult daughters and their partners...

Your Impatience May Be Undermining Your Ability to Manage

December 20, 2016 Are you one of those leaders who moves quickly and deliberately while getting impatient that others (your direct reports, peers, or other stakeholders) aren’t matching your stride? They can see your impatience, whether you realize it or not. Your behavior is giving you away in these ways: You are “short”...

Your Meetings Should Include Less Talk

July 1, 2016 You need to have more meetings with less talking—and more silence. Maybe you’ve experienced the awkward moment when nobody has anything to say. Relationships may not be fully established yet, or the room becomes silent because someone said something that was out of the box and nobody knows what to...

10 Ways to Foster Relationships in 10 Minutes or Less

June 24, 2016 I often hear from leaders that they have higher priorities on their plate than making connections with others. The truth is that things don’t get done if you don’t connect to the people who are contributing to those deadlines and bottom-lines. Why would others care about you and the organizational...

How to Model and Encourage Well-Being

December 24, 2015 Flat organizations, new technology, increased competition, and greater complexity define workplaces today. These are only a few of the things that have made your life and the lives of your employees difficult. You work inhumane hours, receive hundreds of e-mails a day, and strive to make your quarterly goals while...

Go Beyond Listening to Make Others Feel Heard

December 9, 2015 You’ve discovered the importance of really listening to those who support you, and that’s great. Listening is a powerful tool for leaders, but making sure that people feel heard is even more powerful. Think about the last time you felt heard. You might recall that you felt included and involved...